Top Questions a Man Should Ask When Starting a New Relationship

If you are a man entering into what you hope will be a serious relationship, there are certain things that you need to ask your partner.  It may seem like asking too many questions could be pushy or could make your partner think you are moving faster than they would like, but the simple fact is that you don’t want to wake up one day years down the road and realize that you have completely different goals in life. 

 

With that in mind, here are the top questions a man should always ask when he begins a new relationship.

Ideally, you need to be able to ask your lover about their views on the things that are important in most relationships.  Ask for views on marriage, religion, and career.  You don’t want to spend years in a relationship, only to find that your partner doesn’t believe in the sanctity of marriage.  Nor do you want to spend years believing that your partner is cool with just dating casually only to one day find out that she’s been waiting five years for you to propose, and that she wants a perfect church wedding right NOW or the relationship’s off. 

 

Everyone has the right to be in a relationship that makes them happy, and happy coupledom starts with knowing that you have the same goals in life, and that you’re not heading in totally separate directions.

You will also want to learn how your partner feels about children.  Does she see you as the man she would like to have children with?  How far down the road would she like to start having them, and how many?

 

And what about money? That may seem unimportant when you first meet someone, but what if you decide to buy a house together a few years down the line, only to find out from the Realtor that she has a horrible credit score and you’ll have to pay for everything.  These are important things to know now rather than get a nasty surprise later.

 

Asking questions in a relationship may be difficult, but knowing that you are on the same page from the start is important.  The health of your future relationship depends on it.

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