Relationship Tips: How To Show Her That You Love Her

Ah love. It really does make the world go round. Relationships are filled with as many tests and trials as there are emotions to be felt. From anger to joy, frustration to peace, relationships are one of the things that make life worth living.  However, the most rewarding feeling you can get is found through relationships – love. 

 

However, if love is a fire, then it needs constant fanning to stay burning. If you are in a relationship, here are some great ways to show her how much you love her and to keep the flame of your love alive.

 

Love Her Classically

The best way is the most upfront. Just tell her you love her! Women never get tired of hearing those three special words. But you have to be sincere or it means nothing. Even if you’ve already told her you love her a million times before, you should remind her every so often to reinforce your commitment.

There are other ways to verbalize your affection without blatantly stating that you love her. Having a real conversation without distraction is an under appreciated form of connection today. Try turning off the television and sitting down for a one on one like you did when you first started dating. Ask her about her day and her plans and goals for the coming week, then go from there. Give her at least a half hour of interrupted time to talk about herself and nothing else – this is more time than it sounds, and it will have real value to her. She’ll know you love her by the attention you are giving her. 

 

And by the way, looking at your watch, glancing at a nearby TV set or checking your Facebook status on your iPhone when she’s in the middle of talking is an instant fail.   

 

Love Her Spontaneously

Few things express love more than a surprise. To truly show that you love her, you have to get really creative.

Take her on a blimp ride. Pack a surprise lunch, pick her up from the office at lunchtime  and have a picnic at the beach. Go kayaking. Dress up like you used to when you first started dating and take her to a upscale restaurant.  Visit a vinyard for a wine tasting. Go horseback riding.  Anything out of the ordinary will show that you love her by mixing things up and putting a note of excitement and unpredictability back in your lives.

 

Love Her Symbolically

Love, by its very nature, is a symbolic form of mutual respect.  That is why marriage is signified by rings. But there are many other gifts that represent your deep affection for her. All types of jewelry stand for love. Diamond earrings, bracelets, watches, and necklaces are romantic gestures that she is sure to appreciate. Show her you love her by giving her whatever you can afford – you don’t have to spend a fortune. Even buying those Macy’s earrings she’s wanted for ages can put a smile on her face.

Try avoiding superficial gifts that represent your wealth rather than your feelings. Gifts like cash, cars, or rent payments won’t express that you love her. Instead, these gifts can say the exact opposite – that you are buying her love rather than earning it. There is a big difference.

 

Love Her Emotionally

When you truly love her, your actions will reflect those feelings. Love means you are with her through good times and bad. So when she’s sick or stressed, take care of her. Even the most independent women can use a hot bowl of soup and a back rub sometimes. She appreciates it more than you know when you are tired but still stay up to watch the end of the chick flick with her.  She could open doors for herself, but knows you love her when you go out of your way to let her in first. 

Showing her you love her emotionally is the easiest step because if you really do love her, these things will come naturally.

 

There are a million ways to show her you love her, whether its telling her straight up or holding her tight when she cries. Regardless of your actions, she’ll love you all the more if you take the time every once in a while to show her you love her.

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