The 5 Most Important Rules of Any Relationship

5 Rules of a Relationship

Wouldn’t it be nice if every relationship we encountered started with a fairy tale love story and ended up with a ‘happily ever after’? If that’s the case then divorce would be nonexistent.   A happily ever after relationship is possible, however the road to the fairy tale ending  is a bumpy one. This is why certain guidelines will come in handy when things get tough. Each relationship is unique, but there are some concrete rules that can apply to each one. Here are 5 rules to remember to keep your relationship happy and healthy.

 

Relationship Rule 1

Every relationship needs to be based on love and respect.  Love, of course is a given, but more than just loving, a healthy relationship thrives on mutual respect. You can show this by treating your loved one as an equal partner (which is often harder than it seems), taking time to get to know him or her, and celebrating what you have in common as well as respecting your differences. Keep in mind that when you commit to a relationship that is based on respect, you not only show value for the relationship you create, but also to each other as individuals.

What does this mean in practical terms? Well, having respect is more than a thought. You need to show respect through actions. Take their concerns seriously, even if you disagree or do not personally feel that what they’re worried about is that important. Even little things like making a snide comment about his or her job or earning power can be taken the wrong way.  So, understand what’s important to your partner and try your hardest to support them in that.

 

Relationship Rule 2   

With love and respect, follows trust.  No relationship can last without trust, and that is a universal truth. Trust creates stability. Trusting relationships are hard to create, and even harder to maintain because if we have been let down before then we will have a natural tendency to distrust others.  Some of the best ways to build trust are the easiest.

Being predictable has somehow been stigmatized.  ‘Unpredictable’ by its definition means you don’t know how a person will react in a situation – and no one in a relationship wants to stay up worrying whether or not their partner is out cheating.  You can still be spontaneous and exciting, but predictable in terms of trust.  Other great ways to build trust include: letting your partner know your needs, being careful keeping secrets (theirs or other people’s), and understanding your partner’s emotions. A happy relationship is also a secure one, creating peace of mind within the relationship.

 

Relationship Rule 3

Maintain open and honest communication. The biggest mistake that a couple can do is not talk to each other. Arguments are inevitable with every relationship, but not all arguments are worth waging war on. You just have to determine which ones you can talk simply about, and which ones need more lengthy discussion.  Not discussing major disagreements can do great harm to every relationship. Speak your mind, be honest and direct and let yourself be understood clearly.  

 

Also, makes sure you talk to your partner about even the small things like how their day went, or what is new with work or things as such. Doing so creates a stronger bond between you and your partner, knowing that you can be comfortable and completely honest with each other.

 

Relationship Rule 4

Have fun. Relationships are a lot of work but that doesn’t mean you cannot have fun while you’re at it. No need to go to expensive vacations or buy pricey gifts just to have fun and show how much you love your partner. Tell jokes, go out and see that movie you both like, give each other small silly gifts on a random day. Do sweet things together, be kids again every once in a while, build up a fun stash of in-jokes, and laugh together hysterically.  Whatever it is you share that makes you smile adds happiness to your relationship at the end of the day.

 

Relationship Rule 5

 

Every relationship eventually becomes routine. Regardless of a static relationship, it’s important to vocalize your affection. After a number of years, most couples in a relationship start to become lazy in saying the all-important but often neglected words: I love you, I miss you, or even hello and goodbye! The root issue here is communication. Although you and your partner may know how you truly feel about each other, vocalizing your feelings is so important because it offers reassurance.  

 

Some quick tips: always say thank you, be quick to say sorry whenever an apology is due, listen when your partner is talking. These rules may seem simple but the truth is, it takes a lot of effort and focus for couples to use them in the relationship, especially during the most important times, like during an argument.

 

They say that a relationship is hard to keep,  but when you find someone worthwhile, the hard stuff gets easier.

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