Telltale Signs That He is Cheating

A man cheats for a number of reasons, most of them rooted in a perceived “lack” –  lack of affection, lack of intimacy, lack of sex, or even a lack of support.  Studies show that about 60 percent of men have cheated or will cheat in their lifetime.  With such a high rate of infidelity, it’s a good idea to be able to read the signs of a cheating man.

 

Sign #7 – Increased Lies

 

A man that cheats is a man that lies.  The deeper he goes into infidelity, the more he is likely to be tangled up in lies.  If his stories start mixing together or things don’t line up, he may be trying to cover his tracks.  No relationship should be based on lies or misdirection, so it’s important to establish a partnership based on trust.

 

Sign #6: Feelings of Guilt

 

People have a natural tendency to feel guilty for things they believe are wrong.  Look for signs that he is coping with the psychological guilt.  For example, he might let you get away with things that you couldn’t have before, or be less confrontational during arguments.  In his mind, if he lets you do “wrong” things too, he can justify his own immoral actions.

 

Sign #5: Increased Arguments

 

On the flip side of the coin, he may actually initiate more disputes.  This, again, stems from guilt because by making you scream and yell at him, you become the ‘bad guy’ instead of him.  He may also want to push you to the point where you end up leaving him so he doesn’t have to be the one to break it off.  That way, in his mind, his actions were legitimate in light of yours. 

 

Sign #4: Lack of Intimacy

 

A telltale sign of unfaithfulness is a lack of intimacy.  If your sex life has diminished or he rushes through intercourse as if it is a chore, then there is definitely an issue in your relationship.  Whether or not it is because he is cheating, a lack of physical connection should be a red flag to both of you.

 

Sign #3: Emotionally Checked Out

 

Men will also “check out” emotionally if they feel trapped in a relationship.  Be aware if he never wants to talk to you or you see a dramatic decrease in communication.

 

Sign #2: Increased Partying or Nights Spent Apart

 

Cheating men will also put themselves in situations where they can meet other single women.  If you find that your partner is going off to parties or bars and making excuses as to why you can’t come along, then he might be thinking about cheating.

 

Sign #1: You Have a Gut Feeling He’s Cheating

 

The most important sign of a cheating man is your gut.  If you have a sneaking suspicion that your boyfriend or husband is being disloyal, look for signs that he is not being himself.  If you feel like he may have betrayed you, even though you have no physical proof, then there definitely is a trust issue in your relationship.

 

Relationships are tough and require periodic examination.  But you don’t need to go see a relationship councilor – just be honest with each other.  All true relationships should offer happiness and security for both people.  Cheating usually is the final straw of a strained relationship. 

 

Most men won’t cheat without first displaying signs of dissatisfaction.  Some will even tell you why they are unhappy if you ask.  Either way, it’s important to communicate with your partner promptly if you have any worries about the relationship.

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