How to Make Over Your Girlfriend Without Offending her

The majority of women are naturally born with a good sense of fashion.  If not, they are raised amongst a culture of style and design.  A few however slip through the cracks and go through life looking like the Ford Pinto of fashion.

 

If your woman falls into this latter category, then you might have been looking for a way to make her over.  Approach with caution because as you surely know, mentioning any flaw about your girlfriend or wife is likely to end up with you apologizing for six days. 

 

Here is how to make over your girlfriend without offending her.

 

Step 1 – Make Her Think it’s Her Idea


Although I don’t outright encourage manipulation in a relationship, there are times where it’s justifiable to sway her opinion through well crafted psychologically tactics.  Perhaps you should become suddenly interested in watching personal make over shows with her.  Accidentally subscribe to a women’s style magazine one day, then ‘forget’ to cancel it.  Invite a relative over who works in the fashion industry.   Dropping a few subtle hints can get her interested in re-doing her look.  If not, it will at least make her more open to the idea.

 

Step 2 – Buy Her an Outfit as a Gift


A new wardrobe can turn a drab woman into a drop-dead beauty.  Hit your local Nordstrom’s at the mall,  find a knockout dress or blouse and wrap it up in some shiny paper.  The make-over will be hidden as a series of loving presents, given over the course of the year.   Encourage her to wear her new items, and when she does, compliment her on them.

 

Step 3 – Tell Her Friends to Encourage Her

 

If your relationship is anything like mine, then you have to walk on eggshells when talking about her fashion sense or you’d be in for a marathon of an argument.  Instead of telling her to change up her look, talk to some of her friends into helping her out.  Be careful not to gossip about your girlfriend – instead, tell them you want to surprise her and that you need their help.  Have them compliment her on the new outfit you bought, or even take her to a hair salon to get her hair styled.

 

Step 4 – Spoil Her… With a Goal in Mind

 

The best way to make over your girlfriend without offending her is to make it a fun date.  Tell her you love her so much that you want to dedicate the whole weekend doing things she loves with her. 

 

So hit up a spa and take a mud bath with her.  If you’re particularly brave get your face exfoliated and chest hair waxed.  After the spa, head to a nice salon for a haircut.  Try to find one that does make-up and nails too.  You may have to bite the bullet and get pampered as well.  End the weekend with a small shopping spree at a local fashion spot.  Make sure to ask the saleswomen for help since most will have a good eye for fashion.

 

The trick to making over your girlfriend without offending her is to make it fun.  Avoid discouraging and insulting her on her current style, as this will only make her mad at you and will not stop her from wearing that huge baggy pink sweater to the mall.  Instead, take the opportunity to spend time with and compliment her on every step she makes towards a more stylish, fashionable ‘her.’

 

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